Tommy is kind and compassionate and he is not even saying it is another persons issues,not his. What do you do when even you bringing her name up to discuss the issue makes him defensive? If you date him, you could lose her friendship forever. I said ok, later found out that was a problem. A new partner should not be forced to deal with your baggage … Take it out to the curb where it belongs. This is his wife who has his children. She actually came back to the city to say goodbye and pack her things because she was not only moving to a different city, but also to a different country.
Does your boyfriend have pictures of his ex on his computer or in his phone? Should I just avoid this situation all together, or are these things normal when people are coparenting? Does he love her still and settling for 2nd best or am i being silly! His best friend texted me saying he really cares about me and I said he should have thought about it before he decided to lie to both of us. If their response is happy or ambivalent, thumbs up. I am ex of someone else and I know exactly how things work. He and his ex have been separated for 3 years they were never married. That is healthy;you may be depressed from the loss, but needing to end the relationship may be perfectly healthy. I like a boy that used to date a girl from my school we were not friends, just acquaintances. Deceitful or secretive behavior inhibits trust from developing, and damages trust that has already developed.
Its completely normal to be friends with your exes if they were good, caring people and if you let go of your anger. The text was from his ex-girlfriend arranging to meet him for lunch on Friday. Odds are, that's what this is, in which case you should probably just sigh, move on, and hit up your of choice, where you can find lots of other crush-worthy women. One big red flag for me, is that they talk about their romantic lives with eachother. If I were in your situation, I would do whatever I could to avoid the subject of this ex-girlfriend altogether. He moved across the country to be with her….
He has told her to move on and find a man who will care for her. Yeah, it's a little weird, but as long as he told you about it first, you may want to let it go. When we first got together, he had just broken up with his ex a month before. This conversation will not go well. Don't take that to mean he's hiding something, instead rest assured he's attracted to you and isn't quite sure how to act. And a loving partner will be there to help dispel any fear you may have.
I guess people have different moral standards …As for me, I will have a hard time trusting someone else. . Because, why did e have to hide? As such, do not discipline his kids, tell them what to do or expect them to open up to you the way they would with their mom. We trust the tellers at the bank, who are strangers, with our money, because their job is to handle money in a trustworthy way. As the times we do share are fun and memorable times.
I have a daughter 12 and a son 7. Do you guys think he has been with her and if he still has feelings for her? He did say that she made a comment about being horny but he just told her she needed to do something about that and laughed it off. And we need to move into a two bedroom apt for more room so we dis that when i was 6 months prego. He believes in being in-love with one person but playing with others. Well in the past couple months everytime they would break up, me an him would hold hands an then he would text me for a couple days, then him an his girlfriend would be back together. In response to that he told her that she is a wonderful, sexy fantastic woman, worth of a great relationship.
We do everything we can for his children, but not his ex wife. Last night we talked on the phone and he told me that he is stuck in a limbo because he really likes me but the emotional attachment is still there with the other girl even tho he knows it may not workout. The killer thing, I am bi, and am open to a swinging life style together, he is ok with that as well, but still wants his ex and this girl. With my partner who wants to hang out with his ex just the 2 of them and he believes that he should be able to have single females friends still while we are in a relationship! He took my questions as some kind of control thing. When we first started going out in had told him one of my boundaries was no talking to exes no exceptions.
If they're still friends, and he wants to attend, there's probably no cause for concern in fact, now's a good time to ask him to take you with , but if he's organizing the whole shebang, you may not be getting the full story. So I let the first go but what about the second I wanted our baby. They were in a 5 year relationship that ended before he met me. I regret it — it was destructive and never ever helped my relationship. Good friends with exes who talked and texts in a secretive way then to meet up together? He tells me this is a great relationship and he is very happy. This is what I hate about divorced people like this; they are so confused they don't know what they want.